There used to be a guy 10 years back who really liked me a lot but somehow could not manage to tell me. Due to circumstances he moved to a different state. For a brief while we exchanged emails and chatted online.

But when he told me that he fell in love with me, I was already married by then. I did not ever tell him that I am married and I just shut him out by never answering his emails or IM’s. He got the message that he has to face the hurt for his earlier shyness.

He recently graduated with bachelor degree in mathematics and emailed me again asking that if I am single, would I consider marrying him. I again did not reply.

Surprisingly yesterday he hacked into my yahoo email account, read my inbox and sent folder messages and from there he discovered that I am married now.

After that he sent me an email expressing deep regret of hacking and apologized. He told me to change password and assured me that he would never commit such an act again. He also said that I should have told him of my marriage and by not doing that I caused him further hurt. He also said that from now on he has totally given up on me and will never ever try to correspond with me and move on.

Should i now punish him by reporting him that he hacked into my email account? The punishment will teach him a serious lesson.

Or should I forgive and forget and change password?

He had given me his email password 2 years back. But I never went into it.

There used to be a guy 10 years back who really liked me a lot but somehow could not manage to tell me. Due to circumstances he moved to a different state. For a brief while we exchanged emails and chatted online.

But when he told me that he fell in love with me, I was already married by then. I did not ever tell him that I am married and I just shut him out by never answering his emails or IM’s. He got the message that he has to face the hurt for his earlier shyness.

He recently graduated with bachelor degree in mathematics and emailed me again asking that if I am single, would I consider marrying him. I again did not reply.

Surprisingly yesterday he hacked into my yahoo email account, read my inbox and sent folder messages and from there he discovered that I am married now.

After that he sent me an email expressing deep regret of hacking and apologized. He told me to change password and assured me that he would never commit such an act again. He also said that I should have told him of my marriage and by not doing that I caused him further hurt. He also said that from now on he has totally given up on me and will never ever try to correspond with me and move on.

Should i now punish him by reporting him that he hacked into my email account? The punishment will teach him a serious lesson.

Or should I forgive and forget and change password?

He had given me his email password 2 years back. But I never went into it.