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kittyrogers Said,
June 30th, 2010 @10:30 am  

You are hardly “old” in your thirties, but if you are still paying student loans and only making a small salary, then you might want to rethink going back. You owe your daughter a college education, as you had time to do this long ago. And, by the time you graduate you will be TOO OLD, as the job marketplace is becoming one of youth. If you can go the on line route, great, but make sure you don’t get yourself so deeply in debt you will never get out. And remember, you owe your daughter first and foremost.

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willinkc Said,
June 30th, 2010 @10:49 am  

You need to decide if you will be able to realistically make enough money to make getting the degree worth the expense. You also need to decide what your motivation is for getting the BA. Is it so that you can feel good about yourself or is it because it truly will help the family out in the short and long-term.

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FANNY Said,
June 30th, 2010 @11:20 am  

I believe you have answered the question in the second paragraph. Do you want to think “what if” for the rest of your life, or accomplish your dreams. I don’t know how your husband is but some men don’t like that a woman may be more educated or make more money than their wife. But you need to do what you feel is right, and regardless sounds like you will do fine in school being that you accomplished it before. The bennifits are going towards the family, why not.

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Inadept Said,
June 30th, 2010 @11:41 am  

If you want to go to school to get a better job, GOOD for you. I’d recommend that you go to a state supported school because they tend to be less expensive. Yes it might take a bit more time, maybe. Many public schools now offer classes and entire programs on line. Check with all the public schools in your state to see what kind of programs are offered on line.

One caveat about private schools, check out their reputation, the program’s reputation at the school, if they are accredited and by whom and who is hiring their grads. How much these grads are earning, and can you talk to a couple to find out what they think about the school’s program a few years after they graduated.

I think you need some career counseling.

Good Luck and Good Education

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Bunnie Said,
June 30th, 2010 @11:46 am  

I think that you need to take a realistic look at your fiances!
If you really can’t afford to go back to school and feed cloth and put a roof over your families head then it probably isn’t a good idea to go back right now!
Try to look at it from your husbands stand point I’m sure he’s not saying that you should never go back to me it just seems like he’s saying that going back right now isn’t fees able for the family!
Don’t Let something like this cause problems in your marriage try only buying things that you need and put the money aside so that you save then re-approach the idea in a few months!
Try not to get discouraged by all this I know that it’s hard right now you should pray about the situation too!